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Overcoming The Empty Nest Sydrome

Experiencing The Empty Nest Sydrome? Are you feeling blue, you don't know what to do with the extra time, the house is too quiet, you open their bedroom doors and there's no one there? Cheer Up! There is life after raising your children and here are a few tips that will help you move forward with your life:

  • Enroll in an adult education class or take a few classes at your local college.
  • Make dates with your husband or significant other. If you're not involved join a singles group.
  • Get a new hair cut or style.
  • If your child has moved permanently, utilize the extra space. Turn their room into an office, den or work area for your crafts.
  • Start the business that you always wanted, but could never find the time to devote to it.
  • Indulge in your favorite hobbies.
  • Make a trip to the local animal shelter and pick out a furry friend.
  • Start a book club with family and friends and host regular meetings.
  • Eat out as often as you like.
  • Start those home improvements that you wanted, but couldn't afford.
  • Plan week-end get aways.
  • Start scrapbooks for each of your children.

Take one step at a time, and you'll move forward to the next phase of your life. There is life after the children, and be assured you will learn to enjoy it.

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Baby Dipper Bowl Give Away

Need to free up a hand when you feed your infant? Wish the bowl didn't move when your toddler eats? The Baby Dipper Bowl is your answer. Barbara Schwartz holds the patent on this ingenious invention and owns http://www.babydipper.com/

I was excited when Barabar asked me to review The Baby Dipper Bowl. We're always on the look out for products that make make life easier for mom. When I received the set, I was impressed. I love the color of the bowl and the shape was well thought out. The shape helps with placing the food onto the spoon and the spoon rests in the bowl easily. Great concept if you have the baby in your arms rather than the high chair, which happens often when visiting friends or grandma.

The spoon is contoured with a contrasting handle in yellow. This is a great stimulation for baby. The bowl has a non-slip base to help prevent sliding. This benefit is two-fold, great bonus for mom keeping the bowl stationary while feeding baby and a great bonus for toddlers learning to feed themselves.

The bowl is great for cereal or apple sauce for infants and toddler's fruits or spaghetti. This set would be a great practical baby shower or new baby gift for a first time mother too. The Baby Dipper Bowl gets two snaps and a booty shake. It goes in grandma's bag for sure.

One of our readers will be the recipient of The Baby Dipper Bowl too. How awesome is that! The packaging is very nice, it's ready for gift giving when received. Here's how you can win? Visit The Baby Dipper Bowl and let us know what you like about the set. Please leave a valid email address. Posts with invalid addresses will be disqualified Give Away will end April 1, 2009 at mid-night and is open to US and Canada Residents 18+ only.

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Leg Huggers Give Away


Love to keep your baby fashionable? We found the perfect product. Adorable Leg Huggers for baby. They are fabulicious and available in variety of styles. Not only are they adorable, but they are functional as well. They fit perfectly over baby's chubby legs and provide a layer of warmth under dresses or while they're roaming around the house in Mom's favorite onesie. I love the fact that they help protect baby's knees while crawling too.
Worried about hypoallergenic problems? Don't, they're made from Bamboo. Yes, I said bamboo. It's the new cotton. Bamboo is more antibacterial than other fabrics like cotton or wool, which are very absorbent and often hold the dampness in. Bamboo keeps moisture away.
I was so pleased with the variety of styles Leg Huggers offers its customers. They offer the Bow Leg Huggers shown, popsicles, flowers, butterflies and more. They are sooooo soft and the packaging is great. They arrive ready for gift giving.
You could win the Leg Huggers shown and enjoy this great product for yourself. Here's how: Visit Leg Huggers and let us know which is your favorite pair. I love the bows shown and the popsicles. So cute! Come back and leave us a comment with your email address and we will randomly select a winner from the posts.
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This give away will end March 15, 2009 at midnight and is open to US and Canada Residents 18+. Entries with invalid email addresses will be disqualified.

Quotable Sunday

It's Quotable Sunday thanks to Toni at A Daily Dose of Toni. I love Quotable Sunday. It's an opportunity for me to reflect on the quotes that I share with my readers. Because it's Black History Month, I decided to use African Proverbs or quotes from African Americans for Quotable Sunday during the month of February. I hope you enjoy them.



All great achievements require time. - Maya Angelou



There are two kinds of worries -- those you can do something about and those you can't. Don't spend any time on the latter. - Duke Ellington



I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody. - Bill Cosby



I know that you cannot hate other people without hating yourself. - Oprah Winfrey



Character, not circumstances, makes the man. - Booker T. Washington



If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else. - Booker T. Washington



We hope that you enjoyed our quotes. Leave us a comment and let us know which is your favorite. Be sure to visit A Daily Dose of Toni for more quotes.





Teaching Children Manners

Do you believe children today have less respect for elders and using manners is of no importance? I have found that excuse me, thank you, and please are not a part of our children's vocabulary these days. When did we lose this value? Teens have either cut in front of me or reached acrossed me and never uttered a word. When I was raising my daughter, teaching her good manners was very important. I still believe to this day that good manners will take our children a long way.

I have wondered how children these days interact with their parents. Manners are taught and they should be taught at home. Along with manners comes respect. Instilling manners is a sign of respect for your parents and your upbringing as well as respect for yourself. By teaching the basics of manners, you will be teaching your child respect and to be polite. No one wants to be around rude and impolite children. These rude and impolite children will grow up to be rude and impolite adults. Here are a few tips to get your child on the road to respect and being polite:


  • Start with please and thank you. When you ask your child to pick up their toys, get ready for their bath etc. say please. When your child abides say thank you. Children learn by example.
  • Teach your child to say yes ma'am and yes sir when they are answering. This is extremely important, especially when they are responding to seniors.
  • If you are going to allow your child to answer the phone, teach them to say hello when they answer and to give the phone to an adult. (It's very rude to have a child answer the phone and they just sit there and breathe or hang up).
  • Teach your child to say hello or hi when you introduce them to friends, co-workers, church members or you have visitors in your home.
  • Teach your child to share toys, treats etc. when playing with friends or siblings.
  • Teach your child the importance of not interrupting adult conversations unless it is an emergency.
  • Teach your child basic table manners. This will be important when you're dining out or invited to a friend's home or family gathering during the holidays. Your child needs to understand that they can not play with their food, slurp, burp, or create games with their eating utensils. If a burp does arise, teach them to say excuse me.
  • Teach your child to say excuse me when they need to pass in front of an adult or get around them.
  • Teach your child to say excuse me when they are reaching in front of another person.
  • Teach your child to wash their hand with soap and water after using the bathroom and before meals. Also, teach them to wipe their hand on a towel and not on their clothes. Teaching them to use hand sanitizer is a good idea when soap and water is not available.
  • Teach your children to wipe their nose with a tissue and not their hands. Also, picking their nose is improper.

Using patience with your child is a must while teaching them manners. They won't learn overnight, so it's important that you remind them of the importance of manners often. As they get older and they have mastered the basics, you can instill other values.

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This Murder's Friend Contacted Me



I had an interesting response to the review of this book, Out Of Control. On Thursday, January 29, I received an email response from Amy Redus. Amy stated that she and Clara Harris were best friends. Needless to say, I was shocked. I always look forward to comments on my posts, but to have someone respond that is connected to the murder was totally unexpected.

I've asked myself if it would be unethical to share my conversation with Amy with my readers, and I've concluded that it is not. I have removed her email address. My blog and the comments made are open to everyone. Also, Ms. Redus stated that her intentions was to post a comment on the blog as you will see below.

Here's Ms. Redus comment:

----- Original Message -----
From: Amy Redus
To: rhonda@gigglesnsugarkisses.com
Sent: Thursday, January 29, 2009 12:56 PM
Subject: Out of Control

Hi Rhonda,
I enjoyed your blog and tried to post on it but am not sure if I was successful or not. I saw that you had read Out of control by Steven Long. I am just wondering what you though of Clara Harris before and after reading his book? I read the book also and thought he did a pretty good job.
Thanks,
Amy


Here's my response:

----- Original Message -----
From: Rhonda Gales
To: Amy Redus
Sent: Thursday, January 29, 2009 7:34 PM
Subject: Re: Out of Control

Hi Amy,

Thanks for stopping by. I really didn't know Clara Harris before reading the book except what I had heard on Oprah, so I hadn't formed an opinion. After reading the book, I believed she was a scorned woman who lost sight of what was really important. God, herself, and her children. If a man chooses to stray, there's nothing you can do to stop him. You can loose weight, color your hair, buy new clothes, but that won't change his direction if he decides that's how it's going to be.

I can understand her anger and frustration. She built a million dollar business with this man, helped raise his daughter, gave him twins and maintained his home. It had to be difficult to face the fact that he was willing to throw it away for the Office Assistant. I would have fought back in the court room, but it wouldn't have been for murder. He would have been facing adultery charges.

We as women forget, that a man can't make us or break us unless we allow him. She could have moved on with the business, home, children and someone who really appreciated her. Now she has nothing, but a life behind bars. Such a sad situation for the children.

Amy's Response:

From: Amy Redus
To: Rhonda Gales
Sent: Friday, January 30, 2009 7:58 AM
Subject: Re: Out of Control

You are right, only one thing she didn't mean to kill him. She wanted to stop him from leaving with her. She knew Gail or had heard Gail was lesbian and knew that she was just after David's money. She meant to run into gails car and just lost it. She was just at her breaking point. She happens to be my best friend and I know that in her right mind she would never in her right mind even hurt David. You were right again and she says her priorities were out of line. To her David was her King/God she thought he was everything so when he betrayed her like that it was very emotional. Even David's mother who is like a moo to me says Clara loved David too much. I was just curious about what you though. Oprah went to Mountain view to interview Clara not really liking Clara but mainly going for the story. She left the interview with a better understanding of her emotional state.
Yes things would have been so much easier if she would have just left that night but she did Allow David to break her and something in her snapped and she lost control of the situation. She has lost everything but she has gained a deeper relationship with God, her friends and many people He has sent to help her through this time. She has served 6 years and we are in the beginning stages of looking for a parole attorney for her.
Amy


I sent another response to Amy. I didn't agree with everything she stated in her response, so I had to voice my opinion on several of her statements. I'm currently waiting for her comment.


While waiting for Ms. Redus response, I decided to check her out. I probably shoud have done that before my initial response, lol. Anyway, I googled Ms. Redus and she is truly connected to Clara Harris. According to the transcripts on CNN Connie Chung interviewed Ms. Redus on January 23, 2003. According to Connie Chung, Amy stated that she just knew Clara Harris through church. From reading the transcript, it doesn't appear that Amy knew Clara Harris very well.


My search on Yahoo turned up additional information. From that search, it would appear that Ms Redus and Clara Harris have established a closer relationship. Amy Redus speaks of Clara Harris at Friends For Clara Harris and another site also entitled Friends For Clara Harris.

I'm unsure if I will hear from Amy Redus again, but I welcome her comments and I'm striving for an interview with her regarding her friendship with Clara Harris and the site The Friends Of Clara Harris and their cause. Inspite of our different view points of Clara Harris' actions, I believe that we have connected for a reason. I will keep each of you in the loop, and I welcome your comments on this post.

Quotable Sunday

It's Quotable Sunday thanks to Toni at A Daily Dose of Toni. I haven't participated in a few weeks, but I decided this Sunday would be a perfect time for me to get back on track. In honor of Black History Month, I will be using African Proverbs for the month of February. I hope you enjoy them:

*It Take A Village To Raise A Child
Hilary Clinton made this African Proverb famous. It was true than, and it is true now.

*We start As fools and become wise through experience.
None of us are born with tools for life. We learn as we go and from our experiences. I look at each day as a learning experience with the expectation that I will go to bed knowing more than I did when I woke.

*Don't set sail on someone else's star
Don't wish for someone else's fortune. Be happy for them, but set your own destiny. You will enjoy the experience so much more when you arrive.

*Confiding a secret to an unworthy person is like carrying grain in a bag with a hole.
Oh yes, your secret will leak out little by little. Be careful what you say, and who you say it to.

*There is no medicine to cure hatred
Be kind to one another. When you open your heart to love and respect, there is no room for hatred.

I hope that you have enjoyed these proverbs, I have enjoyed sharing them with you. Let us know which is your favorite, and don't forget to visit A Daily Dose of Toni for more quotes.